Old talk

Old talk

Old talk refers to self-critical comments about ageing and age-related appearance changes (examples: "I'm so wrinkly", "I'm getting old"). Like fat talk, it functions as appearance-related communication that sustains self-objectification and ageism.

Why it matters

  • Reinforces negative beliefs about ageing and links personal worth to youthfulness.
  • Predicts increased body dissatisfaction, anxiety, and sometimes social withdrawal.
  • Disproportionately affects women because cultural beauty standards prize youth.

In writing

  • Use old talk to show characters negotiating ageing, desirability, and changing identity.
  • Contrast with body-positive or body-neutral perspectives to create emotional growth.

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