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Sexual Attraction

Sexual attraction is the feeling of being drawn to another person in a sexual or erotic way. It is influenced by physical appearance, scent, voice, behaviour, and cultural factors. Breasts are a common focus of sexual attraction in many cultures, often symbolising fertility, femininity, and sensuality.

Sexual attraction is highly subjective and shaped by individual preferences, sexual orientation, and cultural context. What one person finds irresistible, another may overlook. Attraction can be directed toward physical traits, personality, movement, scent, or even the sound of a voice. See sexual_interest and fantasy.

Subjectivity and Sexual Orientation

Sexual attraction is not universal. A person's sexual orientation (heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, asexual, etc.) determines who they are attracted to. Some people experience strong sexual attraction, while others (asexuals) may not experience it at all, though they may still have romantic or aesthetic attraction. See libido and horniness.

The Role of Scent, Voice, and Movement

Scent (body odour, pheromones, perfumes) can trigger deep, instinctive attraction. The sound of a voice—its pitch, timbre, and accent—can be powerfully erotic. Movement, such as the sway of hips or the confidence in a walk, often heightens sexual appeal. See skin, hips, and cultural_ideals.

Sexual Attraction in Media and Culture

Sexual attractiveness is used in advertising, film, and modelling to capture attention and create desire. Cultural ideals shape what is considered attractive, but these ideals change over time and across societies. See cultural_ideals, female_gaze, and male_gaze.

Factors Influencing Sexual Attraction

  • Physical features: breasts, hips, skin, etc.
  • Behaviour: confidence, flirtation, body language.
  • Scent: natural body odour, pheromones, perfumes.
  • Cultural ideals and media representations.

The Interplay of Physical and Emotional Factors

Sexual attraction is rarely just about looks. Familiarity, similarity, emotional connection, and reciprocal liking all play a role. Sometimes, attraction grows with time and shared experience. See internal_monologue and anticipation.

Writing Tips

  • Use sensory details to convey attraction: the way a character looks, smells, or moves.
  • Show emotional and physical responses: quickened heartbeat, flushed skin, lingering glances.
  • Link attraction to anticipation, desire, and vulnerability.
  • Explore subjectivity: show how different characters are attracted to different traits.
  • Use scent, voice, and movement to add layers of eroticism.
  • Contrast fantasy and reality: let characters imagine scenarios that heighten their attraction.
  • Show how attraction can be fleeting, overwhelming, or even inconvenient.

Example: The Power of Scent

Her scent lingered in the air, a mix of sweat and perfume that made his thoughts blur. He found himself leaning closer, drawn by something he couldn't name.

Why this works: The example uses scent as a trigger for desire, showing how attraction can be instinctive and hard to resist.

Example: Subjective Attraction

She never understood why his crooked smile made her heart race, but it did. To her, it was the sexiest thing about him.

Why this works: This example highlights the personal, subjective nature of attraction.

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